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Mike Rodgers's avatar

Also my favorite movie of all time. I read an excellent article this week about The Quiet Man. The author wrote that the movie is about honor. In short, Mary Kate's honor was at stake in the conflict between Thornton and her brother. Her honor was rooted in the traditional community values regarding marriage and the dowry. It was not the money she really cared about but her sense of honor that she brought something of value into the marriage. Thornton's refusal to take the dowry or to fight her brother in defense of her honor, signaled a disrespect for her honor and their marriage.

For Thornton, there was also honor was at stake. His view was that to violate his vow not to fight would be to dishonor what he considered right and wrong. Honor for him was not rooted in community tradition in his own personal values and he unable to understand the importance of how the dowry and fighting for his wife--in violation of his personal convictions--would be so offensive.

In my view, Will Danaher's honor is tied up in social status and money--a kind of false sense of honor which is transitory.

The brilliance of the movie is found in the resolution of the conflict when Thornton returns Mary Kate to Danaher. He restores Mary Kate's honor by throwing the dowry at the feet of Thornton who then throws it into the fire assisted by his wife. Both Mary Kate's and Thornton's sense of honor is upheld and we learn that their respective honor codes can exist simultaneously.

The great fight scene between Danaher and Thornton betrays the falsehood of Will's code of honor as his challenge to Thornton is met and ends with his admission of defeat. The happy ending is a begrudgingly admission of respect between the two antagonists and a growing friendship. A great movie which probably could never have been made in 2025.

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Bob Curtin's avatar

“When I drink whiskey, I drink whiskey. And when I drink water, I drink water “

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